3 rules to be a Girl's girls

Where do i start?

i've been seeing alot of girls get online and complain that they have no friends or all of their friends aren't good ones. first off, with friendships young and old we need to understand a few things...

1. We have our own lives!

like come on, most of us either have serious relationships, are in school, or work full time, if not all of these. you really can't be serious when you get mad that we cannot hang out every second or fit you into our schedule one week. we are busy, but that doesn't mean we have forgotten about you. we still love you and cherish you and if you would be a girl's girl and realize that, our friendship is going to go alot smoother.

2. it's okay to vent but be an empowering woman!

i am sick and tired of hearing this and that about how ugly girls are or how she did this to you or stole your man or blah blah blah. honestly it is much more of a lively friendship when you have figured out how to vent but still be empowering to yourself and others. I'm not saying don't stand up for yourself, if someone does you wrong. I'm just simply stating bring other girls up. leave that comment that compliments her, give up where you got that piece of clothing or bag if she asks, be there for anyone who needs it. be gorgeous on the inside and out. trust me, it makes life and friendships so much easier.

3. friends first ... ALWAYS

so if your'e in a serious relationship maybe just disregard this or not, your choice. but if your friend needs you and you don't have plans already, go. be there for them because that's what friends are for. don't ditch them for guys and don't make plans you aren't planning to keep for silly reasons. it's easy, check up on them and be the friend they can count on so you can count on them later when you need it. just be a good friend. it's not hard to maintain friendships if you cherish them.

My best friends Callie(left) and Joanna(middle)

xoxo natalie